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    Narcs and Dreams

      Remember when you heard the word, “narc” and it meant that a person named someone when they were under pressure for a crime that was committed? well, this isn’t the same. Now when you hear Narc, it is short for Narcissist. Have you ever shared your dreams and desires with a Narc? They were shot down weren’t they? Afterward, it left you feeling stupid for even thinking for a second that you could have something for yourself. I remember telling my Narc that I wanted to go back to school for nursing. His exact words were, “I’m not supporting you for two years to go back to school.” Now,…

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    Balance

    Every morning, you wake up and plan your day. As you begin to start with your first planned task, you are pulled in a different direction and it continues throughout the day. When you are finally able to return to the planned task, you realize it’s the end of the day and nothing you had planned has been completed. What do you do? Which part of your life now has to suffer in order to complete your tasks? It could be work that you’re having trouble balancing. Or maybe its home life and the kids’ activities. Or maybe its all of it combined. At what point do you accept that…