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    Dream

    How often are we made to feel like our dreams and desires do not matter? We share them with our significant other or family and sometimes the reaction you receive is, “that will never work” or “that’s stupid.” How many times have you felt excited about a new idea or a new career and when you share it and do not get support, you quickly become discouraged?  My guess is too often if you’re in a relationship with a person that has a narcissistic personality. If they are not the center of that dream, they will not support it. If it does not include them in a way that puts…

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    Suicide

    Suicide is a subject that is not talked about enough. I’ve heard people ask, “How can they do that to their families?” And say “They took the easy way out.” Those types of questions or statements come from people who have never been so low in life or in such hurt and pain that suicide seemed to be the only option to end their suffering. When you contemplate suicide, you don’t think about your family or your friends. You don’t think about what religion you were raised in. You don’t think about work or your co-workers. You’re only thought is,  “I want all is for the hurt and pain to…

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    You Are Enough

    We’ve all been told that we are enough by people who care about us at some time or another. I personally didn’t accept it as the truth. I even have “ I am enough the way I am” tattooed on my arm and I remember the exact moment that I chose that, walked into the tattoo shop and got it done. I felt abandoned and left out by my then husband. He had gone on a motorcyle ride to the track and didn’t want me going. At that moment I said “no, I am enough the way that I am.” I don’t need to change to be accepted, to be…