Are you in the same situation that I was once in? Is your family concerned for your safety? I didn’t know the extent to which my parents struggled to watch me during my dark time. They had to watch my weight drop extremely fast. Going from 172 lbs to 126 lbs in a matter of a couple of months. They had to watch as my hair fell out by the hand fulls. I would cry when asked, “Are you okay?” I would cry when they would reach out and give me a hug and not saying anything at all. My parents held me many of nights while I fell apart.…

Google defines love as an intense feeling of deep affection. Do you see lies, cheating, abuse and controlling as the definition? No, you don’t because that is not love. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 says, “Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast. It is not proud, rude or self-seeking. It is not easily angered and it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.” Let’s take a moment to break this down: “Love is Patient.” Patient is defined as, able to accept or tolerate delays, problems, or suffering without becoming annoyed or anxious. It does not give…

“The person breaks you down and creates a new identity. One that you become dependent upon them.” -Steven Hassan  When you love someone who has a Narcissistic or Sociopathic Personality Disorder, it is like being in a cult. You only see what they want you to see. You only believe what they want you to believe. They are such good manipulators and most of the time, you do not realize that you’ve been played or used. It is not about you, it is about them and what is in it for them. It is about the control that they have over you. It is about what they can gain from…