• Home,  Relationships

    Communication

    What happened to sitting with someone and having a conversation? A face to face conversation, not text. We’ve come to rely on text messaging to tell people how we feel instead of doing it in person. With this route, you can’t hear their voice to know the tone of which things are being said. It has the potential to cause trouble and go down a road you did not foresee happening when you sent what you thought was innocent, heartfelt or even funny. Communication in a relationship is one of the most important things to possess. I am an over communicator. I communicate things that do not really matter, like…

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    Choices

      We are always given choices. We can choose how we live. We can choose our careers. We can choose to be the best version of ourselves. We can choose to be selfish or selfless. We can choose not to care about anything and have the mentality of FTW. We can choose to be positive during the tougher situations and know that “this too shall pass” or we can be negative and state why it’s bad and won’t improve. Choices will always be a part of our lives whether we want them to be or not. Getting out of a bad relationship: Have you ever noticed that when you choose…

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    Distractions

      I’m distracted, a lot. The sad part is, I’m aware that I need to refocus on what I was doing. For example, I’ll start praying and I hear my phone vibrate and think, “I need to check that” and I really don’t. That text, weather update or email can and should wait. I’m starting my day off by talking to God and he should have my undivided attention. I know this is a distraction for me so I fixed it. I set my phone not to vibrate when turned on silent and I place it facedown to eliminate the possibility of distraction during my prayer time. We can also…